If you have not already heard, the good news is there is to be an overhaul of the ‘blame game’ in divorce proceedings, which should make the whole process a lot easier.
We are members of Resolution and they they have been vigorously advocating for a change to the divorce laws procedures with a view to getting rid of the ‘blame game’ so that couples are not bogged down in an argument about who has the right to file for divorce, thereby alleviating the stress this can create. The current law requires the parties to site and reply upon either adultery or behaviour, which can be unnecessarily divisive. The proposed changes would mean that the parties need only rely upon ‘irretrievably breakdown of the marriage’.
The parties can then concentrate on other aspects of their marriage such as what should happen to the matrimonial pot i.e. the assets, liabilities and income, and who should care for the children and these are much more important issues to deal with the cause of the breakdown of the marriage.
No fault divorce will hopefully commence on 6 April 2022, according to the Ministry of Justice. It is unfortunate that the date of introduction, under the provisions of the Divorce Dissolution and Separation Act 2020, has been put back from later this year until next year.
This will be the biggest shake up in Divorce Law for 50 years and is a defining milestone, which needed to be achieved and it is possible to apply for a divorce online.Read More
Putting children first – written by Family Solicitor Patricia George
As a member of Resolution, I specialise in encouraging parents when thinking about separation or divorce to think about their children and put them first. This can be a life changing event not just for the parent but also for the children and must be handled with care. I believe children’s feelings must be taken into consideration when deciding to divorce or separate and letting the children know what is happening can be very difficult. It is important the reason why you are separating should not be discussed with the children i.e. he is having an affair. Children go through bereavement if discussions are not handled carefully, especially if one parent denigrates the other parent.
It therefore makes sense to try and reach a compromise if possible. This is where I come in to assist the parent to communicate and reach a sensible solution through negotiation. Most times this will result in the parties reaching an agreement which can be set out in writing or for an order to formalise an agreement (consent order). If the latter the completed consent order and application will be lodged with the court as an agreement reached between the parties for approval by a judge.
Unfortunately, it is not always possible to resolve the issue through solicitor’s correspondence or mediation (mediation allows the parties to reach an agreement as to where the children should reside and the amount of contact with the other parent). There is sometimes too much acrimony between the parties which results in proceedings being started. The application to the court will seek a Child Arrangements Order (CAO). This order regulates with whom a child is to live, spend time or have contact.
The benefits of having a CAO is that if it is agreed that the children should reside with one parent then they will be entitled to take the children out of the country for up to month without consent of the other parent.
I can direct parents to other services for help and support in resolving a dispute concerning the children.Read More
We understand it is a daunting prospect finding out what your rights are in relation to divorce or other family matters.
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Unmarried couples’ living together has changed dramatically over the last 20 years. The Office of National Statistics have recently published that between 1996 and 2016 the amount of unmarried couples living together has more than doubled, from 1.5 million to 3.3 million couples.
Merely living together and having children does not give you the same rights as a married couple. Cohabiting gives you little or no legal protection.
When does it become a problem?
Cohabiting and own the house together?
It is not always clear who owns what when a relationship ends. If you buy a property as an unmarried couple, it is advisable to buy the property in joint names. If the parties decide to split and the property is in one party’s name, the other party may have no legal right to a share of the property.
Do you have a Will?
If you do not have a Will a cohabiting partner has no right to inheritance from your Estate under the existing intestacy rules.
Do you have children?
According to the Office for National Statistics unmarried couples bringing up children had grown by 132% from 1996-2015 to almost 1.3 million. You need to be aware that you are not entitled to the same rights as a married couple if you separate. You can claim child maintenance but it is advisable to put in place more extensive financial provisions for children, in case of a relationship breakdown.
What can you do now?
- Consider making a Cohabitation Agreement (a living together agreement)
- If you are acquiring a property jointly, ensure both names are on the property deeds. Consider entering into a Declaration of Trust if you intend to own unequal shares.
- Consider making a Will
- Most importantly seek Legal Advice
If you need advice regarding the above please feel free to Contact us at Carpenter & Co on 0208 669 5145 or by email at email@example.com and we can put you through to someone who can help!Read More